Hi Kids

i just recently came accross the last letter my father wrote to me, which is significant because i don't remember him ever writing one before it. he wrote it last february, and i am so glad to have it since he will never give me any more advice. he wasn't big on advice, so i don't know what came over him to make him write this:

Hi Kids,


It has been on my mind to pass some thoughts along to you.

It constantly amazes me how fast time passes. Be sure to savor every moment even if it is somewhat bitter. The bitterness defines the sweetness. Smell the flowers. Plan for the future, but live in the present. It is only here for an instant and then it is gone forever. Treasure your memories and savor the past, but don't live there. Make life a well planned adventure. Always look foreward.

I recall your mother's quoting her father telling her that she will make mistakes, but try not to make the same ones twice-- there are enough to make without repeating any. I have found this true. Sometimes you may find yourselves lingering too long in one mistake. Once you realize it, move on. Don't dwell on your mistakes, just learn from them.

People and family are important. Stuff is just a tool to help you enjoy life. Live for the Lord and work in his will. Real happiness is found there. Remember that temporal life is a journey and a preparation for eternity, where real peace abides.

All my love!

Dad